our opinion
ALL BEHAVIOR IS ATTACHMENT BEHAVIOR
Whether it is your partner, family member or colleague, a good relationship is a tremendous strength. But we can also be very touched by the other person. And then we start protecting ourselves. With sometimes complicated behavior for the other person. From our universal needs in relationships, however, that behavior is always understandable.
It’s not nothing to show yourself to people you don’t or hardly know. And at the same time it means a lot. We are aware that it takes a lot of courage to share your and your story with us as an outsider. Showing, opening and sharing vulnerability is a process that takes time.
Everyone has their own pace and moment. Our focus in the guidance is entirely on building trust, being reliable and offering safety. We believe that it is only possible to open within these conditions.